is it all fate???

Is it all fate? It all started on Monday, precisely on 23 March 2011. That morning as usual, but when I was nearby, A as unusual.
My thoughts at that moment probably A bad mood again. But the longer the attitude of his bad mood is not lost. Because of worries, I decided to ask for help from friends. I asked my friend to ask about the strange attitude to A.
But A dodge if A is any problem or upset with me. But I'm puzzled by the attitude of A. A said "she's just another bad mood", but why he does not want to talk with me alone? But one day, I was not considered. I think the eyes of A, I was not there.

Why I talk like that? Because at that moment, I, A and my friends were in a place. Then A asked about the value to my friends.
BUT, I was just in front of him just not the same asked A.
After that incident I was immediately disappointed. Not only 1 incident wrote, much more evidence that A had thought I was gone.
After many incidents that made me sad that A, my stories with my friends, they just say wait. I respect their opinion. However, as I was already tired with this strange problem. And I've been lazy to think about this. But on the other hand, I want to finish this problem quickly and we can be friends like 9 months ago